As the days grow shorter and the chill of winter settles in, it’s easy to feel a sense of gloom. However, planning enjoyable activities can be a powerful antidote for those battling feelings of depression and anxiety. By keeping our spirits high during these darker months, we can turn winter into a time of coziness and joy. Here are some delightful activities to consider this season.
Comfort and warmth in winter
One of the simplest pleasures of winter is curling up with a warm blanket and enjoying a favorite show. If you find yourself at a loss for what to watch, consider the hilarious series PEN15, which captures the awkwardness of middle school life perfectly. It’s a nostalgic look back that many can relate to.
Unwind with poetry
Another great way to unwind is by delving into poetry before bedtime. Some of my favorite poets include Ada Limón, Kate Baer, and Mary Oliver. Their works offer a soothing escape. For a touch of humor, try this poem by John Kenney: “Winter. It’s been dark for, like, five hours, and yet the children are still awake, and I am only a little drunk. What you call yelling I call making a point.”
As you get cozy, embrace the winter wardrobe. There’s nothing quite like sinking into your softest loungewear. Brands like Haven Well Within offer fantastic options like organic cotton wide-leg pants and warm cardigans. Don’t forget those indulgent cashmere socks to keep your toes toasty!
Delicious indulgences and entertainment
When it comes to culinary delights, winter is the perfect time to indulge in hearty pasta dishes. While roast chicken and soup have their merits, nothing quite compares to a rich pasta meal. Try recipes for cacio e pepe, penne with ricotta and lemon, or a cozy squash and spinach bake to warm you from the inside out.
To enhance the atmosphere in your home, consider adjusting your lighting. The dim, warm glow reminiscent of the Mad Men series can be achieved by using multiple light sources strategically placed below eye level. If you’re looking for a quick fix, don’t underestimate the charm of twinkling fairy lights.
Engaging in live performances
As the winter season unfolds, make time to enjoy live performances, whether it be a play, concert, or ballet. Many friends rave about the play Liberation, and it’s a plan for me to take my mom to see it over the holidays. Local productions such as the Nutcracker or even a high school musical can offer joy and entertainment. If you’re in the mood for laughs, keep an eye out for solo shows from comedians like Alex Edelman, who will be performing in various cities.
Exploring the outdoors and community
To infuse some fun into evening walks, try turning them into a game. My children love friendly competitions, so we often challenge each other with predictions. For instance, we might guess how many pumpkins we’ll see on our route. The other day, we spotted 21! Next time, we might see who can count the most dogs or Christmas trees we can spot through windows.
Baking can also be a delightful winter activity. Recently, renowned restaurateur Claire de Boer shared her delectable chocolate cake recipe, including a smaller version for two, perfect for an evening treat. If you prefer something warm, consider a rich hot cocoa recipe that’s sure to please.
Share and discover through literature
Another enriching winter activity is to ask a friend for their favorite book and then delve into it yourself. This not only broadens your reading experience but can also deepen your connection with friends. Recommended reads include Shuggie Bain and An American Marriage, but I’d love to hear what you choose!
A visit to a museum can be both enlightening and calming. Instead of rushing to see everything, take your time and appreciate one piece of art. As psychology professor James O. Pawelski suggests, it’s not about the quantity but the quality of your experience, much like enjoying a good book.
Celebrate the season
Finally, don’t miss the chance to visit a Christmas store, regardless of your holiday traditions. The vibrancy of colorful ornaments and shimmering lights can be a delightful pick-me-up. In New York, John Derian’s holiday shop in the East Village is a personal favorite, especially for its quirky items.
As winter approaches, remember that it’s all about finding joy in the little things. Embrace this season with open arms and let these activities elevate your spirits.

