The warmth of community through shared meals
During winter months, when cold days can feel prolonged, gatherings with friends can provide essential warmth and joy. Inspired by this sentiment, a group of friends initiated a soup group in January 2019, a concept proposed by Liz. The idea was straightforward: rotate hosting duties among the six friends, with each designated host preparing a hearty soup while others contributed sides such as salad, bread, and dessert. This ritual not only offered culinary enjoyment but also fostered connections among friends.
What began as a seasonal event quickly transformed into a beloved tradition. Even as winter waned, the group continued to meet every few months, creating lasting memories and deepening their friendships. One standout dish from their gatherings has been Linsey’s celebrated tortilla soup, known for its consistent appeal. Occasionally, they have diverged from the soup theme, opting for pasta or pizza, and at times, they have dined at local restaurants for a refreshing change.
Creating a safe space
The gatherings have evolved into a sanctuary for sharing life’s highs and lows. Conversations have ranged widely, covering topics from work and relationships to lighter discussions about books, hiking, and even iguanas. Over the years, friends have supported one another through various adversities, including illness, heartbreak, and personal loss. One friend, Gisela, aptly described the soup group as the “safest space,” where all topics are welcomed and embraced. This environment allows everyone to gather around a table filled with soup and stories every few months.
Embracing the joys of gathering
The gatherings go beyond mere nourishment; they emphasize the bonds shared among friends. For example, at a recent meeting at Liz’s apartment, her Swedish husband introduced a playful element by placing Swedish fish on each plate while the group celebrated recent birthdays with a delightful pumpkin cake. Such small touches render each gathering unique and memorable. Recently, they visited Linsey, known for her beautifully decorated Christmas tree, a skill she developed during her time at Martha Stewart Living. Each Christmas, her tree becomes a focal point of their celebration.
As the group continues to meet, the moments spent hugging friends and sharing grilled cheese sandwiches are cherished. This blend of food, friendship, and meaningful conversations creates an atmosphere that feels almost sacred. Poet Kate Baer noted, “There’s no place in this world or in history where there haven’t been groups of women talking.” This sentiment resonates strongly, as the soup group embodies the essence of connection and mutual support.
Building your own community
For those seeking a similar experience, establishing a gathering ritual with friends can be fulfilling. Consider organizing regular walks, starting a cookbook club, or planning weekly errands together. The core of these activities lies in shared experiences and the friendships they nurture. If you have any favorite soup recipes, sharing them could enhance the next gathering.
Ultimately, cultivating a supportive community, whether through a soup group or other means, can profoundly impact one’s life. It fosters a sense of belonging and provides a support network to navigate life’s challenges. Therefore, gather your friends, prepare some soup, and relish the warmth of companionship that follows.
